This is good timing for this book. Since my co-worker is also reading the book, I have had the chance to talk about the Zander's ideas with her, as well blog about it. The concept of dealing with negative feelings by sticking with them and using them as a form of exercise to enable us to be able to handle and rise above greater challenges we will face in the future was novel. It was also empowering. A fellow teacher who was given a difficult assignment used to say, "It is what it is." Not quite the same thing, but the idea of acknowledging the way things are, then moving on made me think. I wonder if my way of giving way to passion and getting out of a survival mind set would be to take the leap of leaving my current position and looking for an opportunity to work in a really creative environment that embraces the use of technology in education.
If so, what would that be? What am I most passionate about? The book has made me ponder these questions. I also have revisited the ideas in the book and challenged them. What gives the Zanders the authority to make these claims? Why do they resonate with me and with my colleagues? Is it because we recognize the innate truth in them, or because we want them to be true?
I also appreciated the bit about not taking ones self so seriously. Funny, but good advice. The discussion of leading from every chair is relevant to me because there is a parallel to teaching. Enabling musicians to be their best is really a lot like enabling students to achieve academically. The idea of giving the students a chance to lead is appealing, too. I have done that from time to time, but certainly not enough. I was reminded to make a point of giving students more opportunities to "be the teacher." I know they really like to do that and it builds up their self-confidence.
I am looking forward to reading the rest of the book. It has certainly encouraged me and given me a lot to think about.
Response:
Patricia it was great to see not just that you enjoyed the book – but that you then brought yourself to challenge what it said and the authors! Is it innate truth or a desire within us for it to be true? Truly a question to be asked and one that I’m not sure has an answer. I have always felt it is innate in each of us that we wish to be happy – in our job, our homes, our lives – and this book points out a different approach to how many pursue that desire. It may not be that the book presents any more truths to us that we didn’t already know – but instead shakes off the cobwebs that have creeped in and reminded us of those truths. It may very well be a case that we have become accepting of our routine and the book as reawakens us to the possibilities that surround us!
I am waxing philosophical – sorry…lol – all I mean to say is that the answer to the question you posed might not be relevant. What matters is that it has awoken that spark of passion, the energy of possibility, and is helping you channel that back into your life!
I concur with your thoughts and reflections on not taking ourselves to seriously as the Zanders presented it – it is a helpful reminder that as we go through the paperwork and tasks that fill part of our day to sit back, chuckle, and keep our passion and joy alive in our heart and bring it to what we do! Sorry – prattling on again – I’m glad you are enjoying and I also look forward to the message in the remainder of the book!
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